GraceMatch is a community of Christians pursuing marriage. These guidelines are the behavioural commitment every member makes when they join. They are not bureaucracy, they are how we keep the community safe and trustworthy.
What We Expect
Honesty
Your profile, photos, age, marital status, location, profession, and intentions are truthful. Misrepresentation is grounds for permanent removal.
Respect
You treat every member as a brother or sister in Christ, including members you choose not to pursue. A polite “no thank you” is always acceptable. Silence is acceptable. Insults are never acceptable.
Marriage-Mindedness
You are seeking a serious relationship with the intention of marriage. GraceMatch is not for casual dating, hookups, pen-pal friendships, or fishing for compliments.
Single Status
You are legally and biblically free to marry: not currently married, separated, or in another committed relationship.
Privacy
What another member shares with you in private (photos, stories, personal details) stays private. Screenshots shared outside GraceMatch without consent are a violation.
What We Do Not Tolerate
Money Requests
Never ask another member for money, financial assistance, gift cards, investment opportunities, or anything of monetary value, even with a sympathetic story. Doing so results in immediate permanent ban.
Sexual Content
No sexually explicit messages, photos, video, or solicitations. We are a faith-based community.
Harassment
No repeated unwanted contact, insults, threats, slurs, mockery of someone faith or appearance, or coordinated bullying.
Hate Speech & Discrimination
No racist, sexist, ethnic, religious, or denominational hate. You can decline to date someone for any reason. You cannot demean them.
Off-Platform Pressure
You may eventually choose to share other contact info with someone you trust, but pressuring new contacts to immediately move to WhatsApp, Telegram, or email is a known scammer pattern and is not tolerated.
Catfishing & Impersonation
You are who you say you are. Using someone else photos, fake identity, or impersonating a public figure means permanent ban.
Illegal Activity
No solicitation, no fraud, no human trafficking, no underage solicitation. We cooperate fully with law enforcement.
Consequences
- Warning for first minor violations, with explanation
- Temporary suspension for repeated or moderate offences
- Permanent ban for money requests, harassment, catfishing, illegal activity
Banned members forfeit any active subscription with no refund. Profile and photos are permanently removed within 30 days.
Report Violations
If you experience or witness any violation, please report it immediately. Our Filipina-led moderation team reviews every report within hours.
Thank you for helping us build something good. — The GraceMatch PH Team